So you've never lost a game in all the time you've played? I for one am impressed.
Of course he has. And I'm sure he did something productive with those losses such as save a replay and evaluate on how he lost the match so that he could figure out how to work around a troublesome tactic.
So you've never won either? This makes more sense. You have a 0-0 record. well, now your quotes stand to reason. Here, I got something to teach ya. See, it's human nature to do that. Sure, on the surface you may think "Wow, that was a good game" but inside, the human spirit is saying "SUCK FAILURE AND DIE MISERABLE AND ALONE, YOU FUCKING LOSER!" to your opponent whenever you win and you have to bite your tongue a little bit to keep from spitting it out loud, and your self-esteem decreases a bit when you lose as a part inside of you dies, because that part of you realizes you couldn't have done worse if you had been taking a piss during that time and leaving the dead stick for your opponent to fight, because either way, you'd have lost.
Unless the player is a groupie toward some established player and worships him/her like a god, nobody truly enjoys losing, and no one's saying you have to. But at the same time, when you're trying to learn how to play the game better, it's highly recommended to keep a cool composure with your losses so that your emotions don't get the best of you so much that you resort to quitting. This - along with study and effort - is the mindset to have in order to learn from your losses.
It's no secret that becoming competitive isn't without its emotional rollercoasters... hell, I'm still going through them. But despite your cynicism, there are people out there who truly, genuinely will help you understand the basics as well as other mechanics in the game you don't see right away as a casual player coming into that field. Furthermore, these people can and will encourage you. But do not expect excessive hand-holding.
In short, you're not gonna get anywhere with learning how to play fighting games better if you don't open up to others and find the right people, even if it is just a few.
BTW, we have more in common than you know. If you want to know how I cope, just send a PM.