Oral only sounds boring tbh >.> I think for straight or gay relationships more should be done, at least if you're comfortable. Like I honestly don't think I'll have sex with a girl until I'm married because I don't wanna mini KasumiLover any time soon, and accidents can happen even if you pull out or use protection. xD with a guy there's no danger but even then I would have to go out to eat a couple of times before I get interested in more intimate stuff, although kissing and some undressing and some "mutual pleasure" type stuff I could get with, but actual sex with me requires at least a while of romantic stuff xDI am not verse but I am willing to go outside my comfort zone every now and then.
Yes bottoming hurts the first couple times until a mold is created in your man's image. Obviously the worst part about it is ejections afterwards. I definitely wouldn't switch to protection.
Also can't picture being in one of those oral only relationships. If you wanna be with a man, learn how to get turned out by one.
I'm not a prude but in terms of relationships I'm kinda like a mix of Venus vacation Fiona with a sprinkle of Tales of Symphonia Emil sprinkled in