One of the main reasons I can't go is because I'm a college student with a limited budget and no job, so I cannot make it out to tournaments. While I would, there needs to be something else that has yet to be addressed. There are people who start getting to know people by joining Facebook groups or forums like this, however, they will often run into individuals (and even top players) who will come at them in a negative way. Thus, that right there can also turn people away from wanting to go to tournaments in the first place. The FGC as a whole has a lot of growing up to do in order to get more people in.
Also, me personally, if I'm going to pay to go to an event and enter something, I'm going in with the mindset to win. I'm TOO competitive to just go to a tournament and not at least place in the Top 8. I understand that there are better players, but there are people like me who feel that they wasted money if they don't place where they want to. As you all can see, there are various reasons for why people do not want to or cannot go to tournaments, even if they have thought about it.
No one ever gets on someone else because "they're unable to attend", that has never been the issue (if they have been, then they're an asshole).
The issue has always been about the players that have the ability to go to something and choose not to. This is an issue because these kinds of players are those that do more bashing about other people more than anyone else.
It's an issue because they talk about supporting their community, but they dodge actual effort like bullets. And try to gain and receive recognition without having done a single thing to help community growth (or anything that really helps establish something for a scene or our community at all). You can't go off and try to talk about other players that have constantly gone out of their way to help the community grow, when you haven't and refuse to do anything beneficial (speaking generally).
Tom Lee's statements aren't geared towards those that do not have the ability (or luxury) to attend events, it's about those that have thought about it and he wants to encourage those players to do so. Everyone with a big competitive spirit will be playing to win, there can only be one winner. However everyone will also attend for other reasons, reasons other people have already listed.
I've always taken time out to meet new people, talk and even help them out with specifics with the game when I play someone. Making players feel comfortable can encourage them to want to go to another event.