Fundamentally, it's about experiencing a title in it's entirety, rather than cut down, bastardized compromise. And the more people run medicore spec and consider it acceptable, the more limited future titles become.
...It bothers me that you don't seem to realize how absolutely insane this statement is. I'm a musician, I deal with this sort of mentality a lot. There are a lot of guitar players out there that will limit their knowledge and practice to playing as fast as they humanly can, and they think that is good music. Who am I to say that playing fast is bad music (it is not), but it is definitely a very limited way of thinking. Some people don't want to compete, most don't really want to even argue, most are in it just to have some fun. If people "settling for less" is ruining your perception of anything so heavily there is something absolutely wrong with your expectations of... I don't know, man. Life.
And once you've gamed at that level, it's hard to look back and justify compromising again, *especially* when you've paid extra for the privilege of playing on the platform you're playing on.
Is it? That's not my experience. I wouldn't play Skyrim unmodded again, because I don't think the core experience is actually any good; but I have no issue going back to earlier PC titles or ports. Even with the machine that I have now I still sometimes play on the Mac Mini. Civilization, some LEGO Games, the actually two or three indie games that I think are worth anything. I see no problem. I have not being spoiled for life because I dropped some money on a nice card. My favorite game of all time still is Super Metroid. And I simply can't honestly believe people haven't done better because (let's say) 4 out of 5 people that play on PC couldn't give a lesser fuck about specs if they tried. That doesn't even make any sense.
And it is not about accepting parity. I'm skipping on DOA5LR on the PC because it is a shitty port. I have skipped on many other games because of lack of features or outright problems (bugs, glitches). Why get a PC? Because consoles (with the PS3 and 360, really, I just realized late) have ceased to be relevant for me. The whole point of console gaming was the convenience. The plug and play, the cohesive experience. Now everything needs to be installed, patched, DLC galore, payed online. I had a fat PS3 that couldn't run Gran Turismo 6. I went online and checked that the game only really works correctly in the new super slim model, because of power consumption... thingies. I don't know if I believe that but it was still true in my particular case. Why would I drop money on this? Consoles have done absolutely all they can to be turned into shitty PCs, so I just got a decent PC. Why buy a console if none of the convenience is there? The only reason left are the exclusives, but with more and more titles coming to PC in one capacity or another, the list of actual exclusives is rather short. Personally, there is nothing all that appealing on the MS or Sony side. I like Nintendo games, but I absolute hate their hardware.
I was a major Gran Turismo fan up until 4 but 5 of absolute garbage (I bought 6 in the hopes that it would have improved and couldn't even play it, so there is that). I bought my PS3 basically to play Metal Gear 4. I don't outright regret it, but I have no desire of buying a console after that experience, specially as I see no sign of business models being improved.
That's my point, it's more rewarding building a PC,on our land, both PC and consoles are very expensive, but consoles are just really expensive shit with expensive games, this works for some of us but not for everyone, as you can see.
I think Brazil is a very peculiar case because the MSRP of the PS4 here is so insane (even though no one really practices it). Personally, I find it very hard to be interested in the new consoles, and it has nothing to do with price, as I said above.
Btw, I'll give you a credit for mentioning Baldur's Gate, old school PC gamer eh? ;p
Not really, actually. I've been on the PC on and off. What I favor most about it is emulation and the backwards compatibility, I really like to replay old classics. But there are certain titles on the PC which I have never really touched like System Shock 2 or Half-Life. A point off of my street cred, I assume. I remember getting really into Baldur's Gate around the turn of the millennium when a lot of people in my high-school class were playing it at the same time. One guy started playing and told everyone it was awesome, than we all got it and "the next day" when we realized the 5 of us had completely different stories to tell about the same game we were completely blown away.